Here’s the key to a good relationship. Well, not the only one, but one of the keys. Kind of a low hanging fruit, if you want.
Watch your loved one carefully. Really carefully. What do I mean?
Dr. Gottman is famous for setting up a “lab” where he observes couples. He invites couples into a space that looks like a bed and breakfast, and wires them up for a week.
Then he monitors how they behave and respond to one another. Picture this. So, there’s this couple that Gottman is monitoring.